Yesterday my boyfriend had left for work but left his phone home. I looked at his search history and found searches pretty much everyday for porn and escorts. All types blonde brunette Asian transexual and cross dressing. He had also searched for cheap sex (our local area). I looked on his emails and found that he had sent pictures of his dick and info about himself to crimson talent, which is a porn thing. I also found an email from man which was a response from an advert my bf had placed on another classified sex ad site asking for his phone number which my bf sent to him.
I spoke to him about what I found and he said that after changing jobs and becoming self employed a couple of months back, that he was desperate for money and thought that he could make money by doing this. He said he never followed through with anything and that he found out he would have to pay to be part of this crimson talent porn agency. He said he searched for escorts to get an idea of how much it should be. I pointed out that he was searching for the local cheap sex on Friday. I know there isn't an explanation, I don't know if he has had sex with any woman or men and anyway he obvs would of done if it had worked out differently. It's actually effed up and I feel such a strange sense of calm about it all. I don't even know what I want to do. He used to be my hero and has contributed to my growth as a person so much. I feel like I don't actually know who he really is. I told him that it is not fair for him to think that he can keep me around while doing/searching for something else. He has only asked me once if I am ok and the rest of the time he is complaining about people annoying him and how much his work is peeing him off. He is being so selfish. I still don't know how I feel, I keep swaying between pretending that nothing happened and obviously knowing that it's seriously effed up. I feel so disassociated from the situation. We are on completely different levels. I am currently at home on the last week of mat leave. Our son is 8 months old
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Found searches for escorts and cheap sex on my boyfriend's phone
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Wwga1wga · 22/03/2020 12:48
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