i leave my wedding ring, another ring, and moisturisers on my bedside table. (forgot to put themon this morning. ) having been gone the later part of the afternoon, i comeupstairs right now to find them on the floor, withthe wedding ring missing. i yell at the kids, b*&%(&s still not asleep. and the not dh says its my fault for leaving it on the bedside table in the first place.
so i go back downstairs and start cleaning up the kitchen of the mess he made when he cooked dinner for the kids. go into the front room and find canvas painted by dsis on the floor, frame broken. the git says its my fault for not puttig it up properly. at this pointi'm crying. if it was something his sister made, we'd all have been crucified by now. i remind him that he doesnt want me drilling holes inthe bloody walls as i dont know how to use a drill. and neither him, nor will have listened to my requests to drill.
later i am sitting in the kitchen, stuffing my face on a mango, and he comes in and starts to speak, so i tell him its best not to speak to me right now. and he says that i can blame everyone and anyone, except myself.
so, was i wrong to leave my wedding rign on the bedside table? or the picture on the mantle piece of the fireplace? should i have bbeen inexpertly drilling holes into the walls?
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superalienstitch · 08/09/2007 23:13
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