Husband touches me in sleep

Bopeep63 · 2020-02-14 17:38:53

We used to have a v active sex life before kids now it's less often . I dont know if hes frustrated and acting things out in his sleep? I wake to him touching me ofteb. Last night he was touching me and licking my neck. I know some people may like this but I really dont. I've spoken to him but it Carrie's on. Sometimes I think hes aware of what hes doing but most of the time not. He also gets frustrated at not having sex as much. I would be quite happy with once a month atm tbh I'm exhausted and have 4 kids. But I give in often because he pesters me and keeps going on. If I say I'm tired he will tell me it will be quick and guilt me into it too by asking do I not find him attractive like he does me. Etc. So I often give in so I can just get some sleep. Its becoming an issue for me a bit. I feel anxious thinking about tonight its valentines and no doubt he will use that and I'll feel bad and give in. Not really sure why I'm posting. Any advice would be great I guess.

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