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Weird sex thing.....?

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Sumsuch Tue 14-Jan-20 23:33:38

This isnt ATAAT ....

Last person I dated didn't like to get close during sex. He would hardly touch my, only kiss after he climaxed, almost no foreplay, didn't like penetration... it's like he would try to be as far away as possible. If I initiated, he would go limp.

Anyhow... several times, when we were physically close, he would put his hand around the base of my throat- just resting it there. It made me uncomfortable.

That's really nowhere near normal, right?

Sumsuch Tue 14-Jan-20 23:34:16

* he would hardly touch me, not my

NeedAnExpert Tue 14-Jan-20 23:35:12

This is the second thread today about this. confused

MashedSpud Tue 14-Jan-20 23:36:34

The whole thing isn’t normal including the last bit.

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor Tue 14-Jan-20 23:36:50

How did you have sex then? confused

Run like wind

Windmillwhirl Tue 14-Jan-20 23:37:29

I think you know it's not normal.

Sumsuch Tue 14-Jan-20 23:49:17

This is the second thread today about this

Yes, I read the other one, and it made me go " hmmm"

We rarely had penetrative sex, and if we did we couldn't orgasm.

Sumsuch Tue 14-Jan-20 23:49:51

* he couldn't orgasm. Dear lord butter fingers!

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor Tue 14-Jan-20 23:51:18

I'd say you had a lucky escape.

OutFoxxedByABadger Tue 14-Jan-20 23:52:01

If he would hardly touch you and didn't do penetration what does that leave? Just you giving him a wank or being his wank fodder? confused

OutFoxxedByABadger Tue 14-Jan-20 23:52:20

(And didn't do foreplay either)

TwistinMyMelon Tue 14-Jan-20 23:53:27

Did your sex just involve a staring contest? With a bit of strangulation?

Sumsuch Tue 14-Jan-20 23:54:39

@outfoxxed
Basically, yes 😕

noego Wed 15-Jan-20 00:05:23

Asexual. With possible kink

Have a look at AVEN. If you're not comfortable OP then get out.

VenusTiger Wed 15-Jan-20 00:23:31

She's already left him. See OP.
Gotta be porn related.

OutFoxxedByABadger Wed 15-Jan-20 00:39:16

Weird.

Interestedwoman Wed 15-Jan-20 00:48:36

'Choking' is very trendy now in a way it wasn't in the past. It's similar to when the fad for anal got stronger, or I've noticed that when people are digitally stimulating women now, they spend more time on jabbing their fingers up you maybe trying to aim at the supposed G-spot, than on the clit. (Boo, hiss!)

But he shouldn't be putting his hands round your throat without asking you if it's ok! (It's not my thing, either.)

Lilymossflower Wed 15-Jan-20 01:13:34

This is the sign of a fucking psychopath

Seriously

Sumsuch Wed 15-Jan-20 07:46:25

@Lilymossflower
Do you think?

category12 Wed 15-Jan-20 07:50:51

Massive issues. Legging it is the appropriate response.

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor Wed 15-Jan-20 08:30:01

'Choking' is very trendy now in a way it wasn't in the past. It's similar to when the fad for anal got stronger, or I've noticed that when people are digitally stimulating women now, they spend more time on jabbing their fingers up you maybe trying to aim at the supposed G-spot, than on the clit. (Boo, hiss!)

Fucking porn hmmangrysad

Treesthemovie Wed 15-Jan-20 13:32:44

It's weird that you even have to ask. No this is not normal

Sexnotgender Wed 15-Jan-20 13:36:44

Totally not normal! Be glad you got out.

Sumsuch Wed 15-Jan-20 18:29:48

I am glad I'm out.
Things hadn't started off that way- but actually, at the beginning he would aim to give me as many orgasms as possible.
While that was lovely, I think that was more about him as well....

Sumsuch Wed 15-Jan-20 18:31:34

TwistinMyMelon

Did your sex just involve a staring contest? With a bit of strangulation
🤣🤣🤣🤣

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