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Cheating husband part 2

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mammieshark Tue 14-Jan-20 03:47:08

Some May remember my posts about my husband messaging an escort on kik just before Christmas. After some snooping, digging and lying from him. He has been a member of adult work and has cheated with two escorts on this site, once a year ago and another one month ago!

He left tonight!

Wish me luck mumsnetters!

JolieOBrien Tue 14-Jan-20 04:05:07

I wish you good luck ... you are well rid of him imho

Frenchw1fe Tue 14-Jan-20 05:07:55

Good luck.

surlycurly Tue 14-Jan-20 06:50:59

Good luck. You're strong and you've just lost some dead weight... onwards and upwards lady!

yesterdaystotalsteps123 Tue 14-Jan-20 07:23:31

Well done. Prepare yourself for the hoovering and love bombing and empty promises. And feeling crap despite making the best decision. Give yourself lots of time to heal, go no contact or minimal contact, look after yourself and put yourself first and don't cover for him. Tell people irl if you need to. It's on him not you

Beerincomechampagnetastes Tue 14-Jan-20 07:29:23

flowers

hellsbellsmelons Tue 14-Jan-20 08:48:37

Thank goodness he's gone OP.
Did you get yourself STD checked?
Here's to a brighter future without a liar and a cheat.
Well done wine

GreenFingersWouldBeHandy Tue 14-Jan-20 08:53:41

I know it must be raw and upsetting, but think of this as a line in the sand.

Behind it, is a cheating, lying skunk of a man who pays for sex behind your back, risking giving you an STI, lying to your face and with no respect for you at all.

Ahead of you is your future. The one you want, the one you can shape, the one in which lies happiness and freedom.

You can do this and I wish you all the luck in the world. You deserve happiness and everything that comes with it. Keep posting if it helps. flowers

mammieshark Tue 14-Jan-20 14:08:14

Thank you all, this is hard! 💖💖💖🌸🌸🌸

ChaosisntapitChaosisaladder19 Tue 14-Jan-20 14:10:46

I remember your thread op you're doing amazing flowers

dottydolly72 Tue 14-Jan-20 14:17:44

I also remember your past thread, good for you! Stay strong xx

mamato3lads Tue 14-Jan-20 14:39:01

I read your last thread and was horrified for you. Keep strong...what a bastard. flowers

ScreamingLadySutch Tue 14-Jan-20 17:08:01

Can someone provide a link to the first thread?

beenwhereyouare Tue 14-Jan-20 17:22:50

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/3782912-marriage-can-be-saved?msgid=92772641

beenwhereyouare Tue 14-Jan-20 17:25:59

mammieshark, I'm so sorry. I remember your other thread. I worried then that he had lied an minimized.

May I ask how you found out? It's educational for people who need help getting to the truth of things.

flowers cake

mammieshark Tue 14-Jan-20 18:24:04

Of course

He showed me his phone and there was nothing suspicious

I remembered from around 12 years ago he had an old aol account. I got into this and found all the email! Reset the password and logged on.

36 escorts conversations in a year shockangry my jaw dropped!

Just in shock still at the moment. I called his dad and informed him, he was horrified.

dottydolly72 Tue 14-Jan-20 18:33:11

36!! Wow.. he's been busy.
Good for you telling his dad, they often gloss over the vile details.. funny enough!

Has he been in touch since he left? I would advise you get yourself checked out. Don't be embarrassed, sadly they are used to hearing such stories from the OH.

beenwhereyouare Wed 15-Jan-20 01:24:31

36 times? So he can't say the cheating episodes were impulsive or a mistake, can he? I'm so sorry you had to find out such terrible info, but good on you for doing so. I

36 times. SMH

LanternLighter Wed 15-Jan-20 08:11:37

This is so hard on you, totally unfair and it’s such an awful thing that has been done to you by a piece of scum that in no way have you deserved.
You will get through this, this horrendous time you’re going through now will build you into an even more amazing strong person, who can cope with anything life throws at you and you can and will trust and love again, and you will fly flowers

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