We’ve been married for a couple of months. I’m 33. He said before we were married we could start trying for a baby after marriage. Great.
Only he keeps using condoms and saying “not quite yet” when I question it! We’ve had unprotected sex a couple of times though.
He is in the military and we are moving next month. I’m currently a teacher so will be leaving my current school when we move without a job lined up as yet. When we are both working, our joint income is 80k. We have 30k of savings and two properties we rent out. Zero debt. Yet he wants to wait until I have found a job when we move so I can get paid maternity leave and we will be “financially stable.” Ummmm we are already!
My clock is very much ticking but he doesn’t seem bothered at all!
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Husband keeps putting off trying for a baby
Biggobyboo · 01/12/2019 22:05
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