Up since 6am with baby and suspected ADHD 3 year old trying to keep them quiet so DP can have a lie in til 9 ( we take it in turns on the weekend).
We have 4 DC, three older ones (DS 8 DS 11 and DD 14) are mine from previous marriage.
Older DC spend alternate weekends with their father. He moved away a few years again and has a new family (young DD and new baby on the way).
DD didn’t want to go this weekend as she has her period and is very tired and not feeling great. It’s a 10 hour round trip to their fathers. They leave today and return tomorrow.
This is the only evening DP and I get a fortnight without older DC in the house so DP is put out that DD is here, although won’t admit it. He says he’s annoyed as she’ll just spend all day on her phone in her room and it’s unhealthy and making her introverted which is true.
I have told her if she’s going to be here all day she cannot spend all day on her phone in her room. She can watch TV or shows on the IPad. She has flipped out and called me a control freak.
DP has said he’s going to work this morning and we’re no longer going out for lunch as DD won’t want to come and we can’t leave her home alone without her phone.
I’m pissed off with him and also phased off with the way she’s spoken to me.
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Bad morning! DP and DD! Help!
BleughFedUp · 09/11/2019 10:59
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