So my fiance asked me to marry him 4 months ago. It wasn't a spur of the moment thing, he had planned it at least 6 months beforehand, he asked my dad's permission and he took me to Paris. We had agreed a year ago that we would start trying for a baby in August, which we started doing. Since then he's been really off and a month ago he told me he has changed his mind about having a baby ever. Then two weeks later he told me he didn't want to marry me. It was a horrific night and he was very emotional and just kept saying he was confused and he didn't know if he wanted to end things or not. The next day he text me saying he was sorry and he does love me and does want to marry me. Since then we've started seeing a relationship counsellor and things have been much better. I still feel very uneasy though in case he changes his mind again and our engagement no longer feels real. Am I being a bitch if I ask him to ask me to marry him again so I can feel sure that he means it?
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Fiance changed his mind about marriage and having a baby
Motherofkittens28 · 31/10/2019 20:28
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