Basically that, for various reasons I can't stomach the idea of having sex with him.
He made a move a few weeks ago and I said that, and he stormed off. Then sent me a message on the weekend saying how much he wants to have sex with me. I replied to say that I don't think I can ever do it again, citing menopause and emotional reasons. I've also been ignoring him I know, not knowing what to say as our relationship has changed.
He has suggested we separate as he deserves someone who will want him like that. I know that's true, and we both do need to move on.
We have kids, a house. And I don't know how to disentangle it all, and I'm worried about money.
We've been getting on so much better since we talked about ending it. And we get on well as friends, I just can't have sex with him.
Wtf do we do?
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I won't have sex with DH, he wants to separate... What next?
Notallitseemstobe · 21/10/2019 09:58
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