So me, 24, and my sister, 37, hung out today. We went shopping and had lunch together. It was all great until she said to me she wants me to drop this nonsense with my biological mother and it turned into an ugly argument.
The background is situation is when I was 2 months old, she left. She walked out on us, me and my dad. I don’t know why and I really don’t want to know. I must admit while part of me has wondered in the past it’s gotten to a point where I don’t care anymore.
I didn’t know her, my sister was 12 when she left. They had a relationship and they still do. I on the other hand want nothing to do with her. I have never met with her and don’t want to meet with her. She wasn’t at my wedding, she hasn’t met my husband or baby and will never get the privilege of doing so if I can control it.
My sister is upset about it. She says that it’s our mother. She said she didn’t reside me to be like this. I was like what? You didn’t raise me. My dad and step mother did. She was always away at school when I was growing up. She called me a spoiled bitch and then she said something that really hurt. She is was like you think you have morals think again. She said my baby girl who is 6 months old is a bastard child because we weren’t married when we got pregnant! She said it was real classy getting pregnant our out of wedlock and not finishing school. I was 23.
She says she wants nothing to do with me. If I talk to my dad he would get pulled into this and i don’t want him to be in this position. I don’t want to talk to my husband about it he won’t understand. We got into a minor argument an hour ago because I came home in an emotional state, he asked what was wrong and I said I need some space and he summoned it was an argument with my sister and rightly so said if I don’t want to talk about it fine but don’t take it out on him.
I don’t know why but she makes me feel so small. She gets to me emotionally. I don’t understand it; I look up to her so much and she always treats me like nothing.
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Horrible fight with my sister
aurorae0222 · 20/10/2019 20:59
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