DS is at a bowling party, tomorrow e are sat out of the way watching rugby when he starts asking me about my shifts at work. He then shouted that he has already told me has plans on such a date (he didn't) then gaslights me continuously until he gets to part truth (a horrendous habit).
We then have this awful argument in from of a room full of people so now I've left.
It's so pathetic but I'm really starting to resent him. To top it off we are TC and Af came this morning.
I have left him before this very similar behaviour. He can be so vicious. I feel like a fool and so embarrassed. I know TTC is the worst thing we can be doing now but without him I can't even work. He works stupid hours in the week so I have to accommodate that and then I work most weekends 20 hours minimum.
The day he's moaning about will be the one and only day off together before the new year. I don't mind that he wants to do other stuff it's more the fact that he automatically assumes I have issues with it. My issues are with the way he is with me, not his social life.
I'm so ready to leave him again at the moment. I just don't know how.
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DH just shouted at me at kids party
GloriaMaximus · 20/10/2019 13:15
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