Trapping my wrist, bruising and cutting it.
In front of the kids no less.
H and I have been together for 21 years, he's never raised a hand to me or even come close.
We moved out of our house into a tiny gritty nasty flat while we buy a house. No one wanted to, we all hate it but a long boring back story means we have no choice.
DH is a miserable arsehole every Sunday. I don't know why but he is, he speaks to us all like shit until the afternoon when nice DH comes out.
We're all sick of it. Knowing we were going to be in a tiny flat this weekend I offered for him to stay at hotel, I would pay, we all get a break.
He said he would stay at a friends tonight.
Instead he has extended his Sunday arseholeness to Saturdays.
We had a minor dispute about some medicine while he was holding the baby.
He then flipped out and slammed the kitchen door in my face - literally. I tried coming out and he kept slamming it shut, catching my wrist and slamming it again still.
I got out and I try getting the baby off him but he's pushing me, hard. I start to panic as he's holding the baby and I hit his arm. He then puts the baby in the sofa but towers over him so I can't pick him up.
I'm panicking and shouting at him to give me the baby and get out.
I pick up the remote control and hit him on the back repeatedly until he gets away from
The baby.
I pick the baby up and tell him to get out. My voice is shaking and he mocks it.
He eventually agrees to go after a torrent of lies.
He said he slammed the kitchen door because I started hitting him. That all this was because I kicked his clothes this morning (I did neither, there were no clothes and I was putting meds back in the fridge when he slammed the door, fridge and door directly next door to each other) he shouts that it's all my fault that he is the way he is.
I say fine, it's all my fault, I tried to fix that by giving him us a break in a hotel. But now he's still like this.
He took my door key so I couldn't lock him out.
To said I would take the kids to a hotel and he chucked the key back
I've now locked him out.
Fuck sake.
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