My husband has fibro. It affects most of his body and due to this he no longer works I now have 3 jobs and do all running around and life admin while he during the week does basic housework and 2 school runs (5 minute walks).
We are not getting on he does not support me and flies off the handle at stupid things.
Also I'm constantly stressed over money and feel like everything is on me.
Everything he does lately annoys me and I know I'm getting on his nerves.
My argument is he won't leave the house or do anything to help himself. He rarely comes anywhere with me and this year we went to the cinema once and he came to Asda with me once. 🤦🏻♀️
His argument is I don't understand how much pain he is in and how hard things are for him, which I don't but I try to help and be supportive.
If we split up he will either be classed as the main caregiver because he's with the dc while I work all week or he will be stuck with nothing and I will have to finish work and everyone will think I'm heartless for leaving and I do actually love him to be fair I just don't like him very much at the moment and I'm sure he feels the same.
I'm not even sure why I'm posting just wanted a moan.
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Fibro ruining our relationship
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WagathaChristie · 13/10/2019 16:43
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