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could you be with someone this rude?!

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Whatthehell189 Thu 10-Oct-19 12:34:06

I’m currently separated from my daughters Dad, she is 1, had been with him 5 years before she was born. He is now wanting to try again however this weekend when visiting my mums he did not bother saying hello to my mum at all, not a word. My mum had an operation a few days before and usually will try and start a conversation with him but this weekend she said she couldn’t be bothered, he is coming into her home and so he should say hello. It isn’t the first time it’s happened, he’ll even not speak to my sisters. When I brought it up to him he said he thought he had said hello.. I get it is tough, DD and I don’t live with him and are an hours drive away but if you are seeing other people at least acknowledge them. I have a lot of issues with his parents but if I were to go into their home or even just to see them I’d still say hello even if I really didn’t want to be there.. just because it’s the polite thing to do and I’m an adult, I’ll put aside my feelings for that moment to get coexist.

So would you be with or get back together with someone like this?

fedup21 Thu 10-Oct-19 12:34:46


TheQueef Thu 10-Oct-19 12:35:00


AryaStarkWolf Thu 10-Oct-19 12:36:10


vampirethriller Thu 10-Oct-19 12:36:21


Gorganzolabrie Thu 10-Oct-19 12:37:12

Absolutely not.

Shoxfordian Thu 10-Oct-19 12:39:01


Musti Thu 10-Oct-19 12:39:51

No no no

PinkCrayon Thu 10-Oct-19 12:40:05


Dhalandchips Thu 10-Oct-19 12:42:11

Another no from me!

yawnhedehihi Thu 10-Oct-19 12:45:32

A big hell no from me.

AutumnCrow Thu 10-Oct-19 12:46:22

No. First he was rude, and second he lied about it - it's called 'gaslighting'.

My ExH would frequently do this. He's a very tiresome man, I realised. I don't know what possessed me to be with him.

MyAuntyBadger Thu 10-Oct-19 12:51:06


DarlingBuds19 Thu 10-Oct-19 12:51:30


Very strange (& shit) behaviour.

MyAuntyBadger Thu 10-Oct-19 12:53:03

After having an operation I would expect someone in my home to at least ask me how I am. He ignored her. He's horrible.

IdblowJonSnow Thu 10-Oct-19 12:53:07

Another no from me. Don't get back with him. If it was right you most likely would have stayed together in the first place. - I realise there are exceptions to this.

HollowTalk Thu 10-Oct-19 12:53:58

Get back with him? I'd want to push him into the river at high tide.

mumu54 Thu 10-Oct-19 12:54:16

And another 'NO'

minmooch Thu 10-Oct-19 12:58:11

No way

Chunkers Thu 10-Oct-19 12:59:51


ThreeLittleDots Thu 10-Oct-19 13:00:21


hellsbellsmelons Thu 10-Oct-19 13:00:25

The questions is, why would you want to be with someone this rude?
He is an Ex for a reason.
It's never wise to go backwards.
Especially with someone this fucking rude!
Do you want this to be the 'norm' for your DD?
That men don't have to speak to women!

balonzz Thu 10-Oct-19 13:01:01


AnneLovesGilbert Thu 10-Oct-19 13:02:24

No. But is this new behaviour?

upups Thu 10-Oct-19 13:04:42

No way

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