I would really appreciate some opinions on a situation I’ll keep it brief and to the point.
My ex has an on off girlfriend who very recently took a big overdose and was in hospital for around a week. What triggered this was an argument because my ex sent a picture of our two children. I know this because a few weeks ago he phoned me crying and worried as the gf was threatening him and blaming him for the overdose and said she would contact me and the children (5 and 12) lots of things about him being emotionally abusive and shouldn’t be around the children. They are now back together and looking for a house.
I understand that this is his decision and he can do whatever he likes in his free time. He see’s the children 2 weekends a month and I’ve asked for that for the time being, given things are so fresh that he holds off on involving the children again in their lives, not long term but for now as things are very fresh and what prompted the overdose was a photograph of my children. I’ve said if he can’t do this then I’m really unsure about him seeing the children. Is this unreasonable?? I’ve never met this lady and I know very little apart from she has a daughter who lives with her father full time because In his words she can’t cope very well. The whole situation makes me feel anxious. I don’t want to ruin the little time he does see the kids (his choice on contact hours) but my gut keeps telling me that this isn’t a healthy situation for the children. Am I being unfair?
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Hanbam · 10/10/2019 07:30
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