I have a brilliant friend of 10 years. She is really kind, supportive etc etc. I am bi but never told her this and it didn't matter because both of us are in happy forever relationships and have kids.
Anyway a year or so ago I realised I was falling for her in more than a friendship way, it got really difficult for me to be with her so I started to distance myself a few months ago as much as I had really wanted to be with her.
Recently I am sure she has realised this and seems as though she might be hurt, a couple of comments about me having moved on or been bored of the friendship (said in a jokey way).
I don't think it would be right to explain why I have been distancing myself but also feel like she probably thinks I'm being a bitch.
Any advice would be great, I'm lost as to how to handle these things.
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I have messed up with my friend
BellendSebastian · 09/10/2019 13:08
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