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Am I right in thinking this is strange

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ceme · 24/08/2019 03:02

DH claims to have a booked a hotel room for his male friend for tonight (friend travelled over last month, stayed one night couple weeks ago). He went straight from work to meet friend and go out for dinner. Came home just before 1am to drop their leftovers and then left to say he staying at hotel with friend. I think that’s odd. What you guys think?

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avamiah · 24/08/2019 03:04

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NewMum54321 · 24/08/2019 03:05

It's not necessarily odd, I think it depends on the circumstances.. we're they planning on going back out for a while? Is there anything else which makes you question it? Are you happy with him to stay there?

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avamiah · 24/08/2019 03:05

If you think it is odd then it is .

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ceme · 24/08/2019 03:08

Yeh it’s odd. Why would you stay in a hotel with a friend when your home is close by? Am tempted to go to the hotel.

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avamiah · 24/08/2019 03:10

ceme,
But he told you the hotel ?

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Aquamarine1029 · 24/08/2019 03:16

It's not odd, it's fucking ridiculous. He's having a sleepover? With an adult male friend in a hotel near where you live? Really? That's the bullshit excuse he's going with? He must think you are very stupid.

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ceme · 24/08/2019 03:24

He did not tell me the hotel. I found the details in his email. 1 room, 2 adults. He has only said he is staying with his friend but no mention that his friend is booked into a hotel.

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VikVal · 24/08/2019 03:27

Very odd like, wtf? Odd...if I had confirmation of the hotel I would go to the hotel! See what he is up to! That's just me though.

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avamiah · 24/08/2019 03:28

ceme,
I don’t know what to say to you to be honest .

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Sally2791 · 24/08/2019 03:29

I would go to the hotel and take him clean underwear. Of course it’s odd

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Monty27 · 24/08/2019 03:31

I would go too.

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Whattodo20192 · 24/08/2019 03:31

What would you do at the hotel? If they're in a room you won't see them anyway

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ceme · 24/08/2019 03:31

Ok but how do I find out the room number?

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NotRamona · 24/08/2019 03:32

It’s not odd it’s obvious

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Monty27 · 24/08/2019 03:34

There's too many questions to ask.
I hope it's two old mates wanting to chat and nothing else.

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cargghkkk · 24/08/2019 03:36

Do you know what car his friend has? To see if it's in the car park?

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Sparklfairy · 24/08/2019 03:39

Is it a double or twin Room?

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ceme · 24/08/2019 03:39

Friend has no car. DH left his car at home.

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Aquamarine1029 · 24/08/2019 03:41

Your husband is up to no good. This is preposterous.

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GirlRaisedInTheSouth · 24/08/2019 03:43

Ring the hotel and ask to be put through to him. Tell Reception it's an emergency. When he answers, tell him to put his friend on the line IMMEDIATELY or you're calling in divorce lawyers.

That's what I would do.

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LorelaiRoryEmily · 24/08/2019 03:43

I'd be going to the hotel. That is crazy.

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Emily312 · 24/08/2019 03:48

When they dropped over the leftovers (which is weird ) did you see said friend?

Why didn't the friend just stay at your place again?

It is odd but I would've just said to my other half that it doesn't make any sense and see what he says.

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cheesewitheverything · 24/08/2019 03:49

So, what do you think he is doing, ceme? Do you usually not trust him or think he is lying?

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Monty27 · 24/08/2019 03:49

You can't get through by phone to the room unless you know who's name it's booked under. If you know that ask for the direct number and the extension will indicate the room number

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Whattodo20192 · 24/08/2019 03:53

You have seen the booking so I'm assuming you do know who's name it is booked under. If you asked to be put through to the room by phone, the person with him might actually answer the phone not your dh. Then you'll know if it's another woman without having to speak to your dh

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