Been seeing a new guy for 4 months and all going well. At the start of the relationship, he was very keen for sex and always seemed up for it. There was never a problem with getting fired up. This was fine with me as I really fancy him. Six weeks in and he says that he has ED due to high blood pressure and is taking meds to get an erection. This is a complete surprise, given there was no indication of issues before. Recently, we were getting close on the couch but things did not progress as he said he could not get an erection. We were planning a weekend away and he is now saying that there may be "bedroom issues", due to his high blood pressure. He has medication to deal with the erection issues,. I really like the guy and want to be patient and understanding, but I am also feeling a little anxious about whether it's an attraction issue. Is it possible to go from being so full on without any signs of ED to having issues in the bedroom? In other respects he is very affectionate and attentive and makes arrangements to see him. The relationship is still newish so I want to be delicate in how I deal with this. Any advice / insight on how to deal with this would be appreciated.
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