we live in a small apartment, and we dont have much furniture because long story short it was an empty apartment when we moved in we were newlyweds and also both fresh out of uni so didnt have much money! Then we found out we were pregnant and although we have the basic furniture for us we by no means have a guest room or the capacity to host a guest in my opinion.
My sister in law has been asking to come visit and sleep over for months now. She lives 3 hours away I'm happy to have her visit but feel stressed at the idea of her sleeping over since it would just be a hassle and I dont see where she would sleep short of staying on the floor in our living room!!!! I have explained this to her and told her to get a hotel.
This has caused many arguments between me and my husband because he dosent see why she cant sleep on the floor for a night. I dont think it's right its imposing on our space and whenever my family visit they get a hotel. It's not like my sister in law is poor or broke she earns a very good living as a banker in london !
She has stayed over once and booked a hotel but complained about it alot. Anyway. I'm away staying with my parents for the week and she wants to come visit her brother (my husband) and sleep over. AiBU ?! I still feel like my point stands and if she sleeps over once she always will do it and be visiting us regularly on weekends. I just feel like because I'm not there she wants to come and prove a point aibu???
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cucash · 14/08/2019 06:26
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