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Shagged and pied

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fandabbyfannyflutters Tue 13-Aug-19 16:58:01

He's married so it's karma I guess but it bloody stings. I feel sorry for his wife.
He's now blocked and I feel like I want to destroy him

Teddybear45 Tue 13-Aug-19 16:59:41

Take this as a lesson and move onto a single man. Take classes to improve your self-confidence if you have to.

ABCabc19 Tue 13-Aug-19 16:59:52

You sound like a delight.
Don’t have sex with married men
Not sure why you want to destroy him, you clearly didn’t feel THAT bad for his wife.

Chocolate123 Tue 13-Aug-19 17:00:13

Did you feel sorry for his wife when you were in bed with him. I doubt it.

fandabbyfannyflutters Tue 13-Aug-19 17:01:07

I didn't know until a week after and some Facebook stalking

KOKOtiltomorrow Tue 13-Aug-19 17:02:10

Karma indeed is a bee-atch. You don’t feel sorry for his wife - you feel sorry for yourself.

Gorrisandhorace Tue 13-Aug-19 17:02:47

What is shagged and pied?
Obvs something I never want happening to me.
It sounds bad op.

KOKOtiltomorrow Tue 13-Aug-19 17:02:49

Bit of a drip feed there!

Fontofnoknowledge Tue 13-Aug-19 17:04:28

That's horrible for you.. did you think he was single ? Did he tell you he was. How long before sleeping with him did you know him ?

Wishihad Tue 13-Aug-19 17:05:15

Why would you think its Karma if you didnt know he was married?

Look, this happens to the best of us. The snagged and pied bit.

Maybe use your facebook investigative skills to use before you sleep with someon?

How did you meet him?

Gorrisandhorace Tue 13-Aug-19 17:05:43

I have googled and the only result was this thread.
Is shagged and pied an expression?
It sounds so filthy.

Wishihad Tue 13-Aug-19 17:08:20

Shagged and pied means he had sex with op then ghosted her.

GoingToSnapSoon Tue 13-Aug-19 17:08:32

Find out her info and tell her.
Why should he get off Scott free?

Next time ask the man if he is single.

Banangana Tue 13-Aug-19 17:08:40

If you didn't know he was married why would it be Karma? You haven't actually done anything wrong...

fandabbyfannyflutters Tue 13-Aug-19 17:09:52

I feel like dirt
I didn't know but it still happened

KOKOtiltomorrow Tue 13-Aug-19 17:12:04

@Gorris..... pied is the youth expression for dumped/ignored or rejecting someone’s advances....also referred to as “he pied us off” need to watch Georgie shore!!

Banangana Tue 13-Aug-19 17:12:20

I'd just notify the wife and then try to move on.

NoBaggyPants Tue 13-Aug-19 17:13:07

Pied means dropped and ignored.

Or porn induced erectile dysfunction.

LittleWing80 Tue 13-Aug-19 17:28:28

Why would you feel bad. He is at fault, not you!
I can’t believe someone said you should have investigated him sooner!

RushianDisney Tue 13-Aug-19 17:31:10

It can happen to anyone, regardless if the man is married or not. Don't beat yourself up OP, just be savvier next time. I would let the wife know if I could, I doubt she will want to be with the dickhead either.

Beautiful3 Tue 13-Aug-19 17:31:29

Don't feel bad. Next time don't sleep with them until you know them well enough (to know they're not married).

fandabbyfannyflutters Tue 13-Aug-19 17:33:46

I'd love to let the wife know but she doesn't deserve her whole world ripped apart

LittleWing80 Tue 13-Aug-19 17:36:32

OP - I would want to know. You wouldn’t rip her world apart, he has!
Besides, you don’t know how many ppl he’s done it to and what STDs he’s bringing her back home.

Gorrisandhorace Tue 13-Aug-19 18:10:00

Wow. Every day a school day! Thanks everyone.
I knew it didn’t sound good.

BobTheDuvet Tue 13-Aug-19 18:26:44

She does deserve to know and to make her own decision.

To the pp suggesting next tine asking if he's single - do you seriously think a man prepared to cheat on his wife would answer this question truthfully?!?

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