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Keelie89 Mon 12-Aug-19 18:45:48

Hi I’ll make it quick at the beginning of the year I found out my OH was texting another woman I found out but seeing a message he sent 7 in the morning to meet for coffee I did confront this and he said they are just friends from way back and have been talking for awhile so all the times I’ve seen suspicious activity this was why she was opening up to him all the time needing to talk to I didn’t see the messages, I was hurt him hiding it from he making a big deal about it and he said he was worried on my reaction I wouldn’t have minded but it hiding something again, so now I’m 6 months pregnant and feel easily overwhelmed, he comes in starts talking about talking to another women old friend and all those feelings come rushing back I didn’t say anything he did tell me but now the feelings are fresh and I’m struggling on what to do

FlissMumsnet (MNHQ) Tue 13-Aug-19 19:44:55

Hi Keelie89,

Sorry to hear what a tough time you're having right now - we can't offer any specific advice but we're glad you've reached out for support.

Hopefully our message will bump your thread so other users come along to talk things over with you.

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Wizbetisanizbet Tue 13-Aug-19 21:56:42

Sorry you are going through this OP. I remember the emotional ups and downs of being pregnant. In all honesty I would talk to him and explain how it is making you feel as it is stirring up bad memories of his past behaviour.

He won't know how you feel unless you say something. Otherwise he'll continue quite happily thinking that you are okay with him doing it and you'll get more stressed.

Hugs thanks

Keelie89 Wed 14-Aug-19 09:37:52

Thank you I will talk to him but I thought I was over this and could trust him again I think it just hit me hard, I'm not sure how to move past this, I don't want to control the relationship and he can't talk to other women he's never flirted from what I've seen just kept secrets

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