For quite a while, when we've had sex, I've had the feeling DH has been semi erect when inside me as I can't really feel him. He has also been less affectionate in general, but we've both been very busy so I've put it down to that. We hadn't had sex for over a week then the other night he was unable to get erect at all. We tried again yesterday and the same thing happened. I'm feeling pretty crappy - like he doesn't fancy me, but trying to reassure him it's ok. He said it could be because he's getting older but we're only 44 and the thought that that is the end of our sex life is awful.
His semi erections are also a problem for me as I can't relax and enjoy sex as I'm feeling like he going to loose it all the time. He claims he doesn't realise it's not fully erect when he tries to enter me with a semi and I point out he's not ready yet.
Apologies as i have already posted this in 'sex', but re posting here hoping for more traffic.
I feel pissed off, rejected and like I'm ignoring my sexual side, but have to be fine about it with DH and can't really express how I feel to him or I just end up making the problem worse by putting him under more pressure to get an erection.
He's fit, exercises regularly, doesn't smoke, doesn't drink excessively, no diabetes or circulation problems. Is there any hope?
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DH unable to get erect and I feel crap
skysallblue · 22/07/2019 10:16
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