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thecatsarecrazy Fri 12-Jul-19 17:13:51

Me and my husband have been married 13 years and have 3 kids. Being honest there have been issues since the start of our marriage but i fell pregnant straight away and was scared of bringing a baby up alone.
He works f.t and im a sahm to our 2 year old. This afternoon i was on the pc and his emails were open. I clicked on sent emails. Right at the top was one dated Oct 2017 i will include a picture with names and emails covered. Hes been with a sex worker hasn't he? He will be home in a couple of hours and he will know somethings off. I forwarded it to me so it has todays date. I can't think if he was in Plymouth then i know he had interviews but i think it wasn't until last summer. I was still working back then and he had our youngest

HollowTalk Fri 12-Jul-19 17:23:58

It doesn't look good, I'm afraid. Can you look through old bank statements online?

SparklyMagpie Fri 12-Jul-19 17:24:16

I'm sorry OP but from that, I'd say yes sad

Aussiebean Fri 12-Jul-19 17:28:06


EAIOU Fri 12-Jul-19 17:30:39

Massage or other health thing like chiropractor etc

It doesn't seem well worded so I've no idea what I'd take from that.

Has he form for this or can you search back and see if there are similar emails to this address?

ScarJo Fri 12-Jul-19 17:31:00

I live in Plymouth and if I remember correctly there is an area near the aquarium called Millbay which is basically a red light district..

So sorry op it doesn't look good sad

thecatsarecrazy Fri 12-Jul-19 17:33:42

He has his own bank account he likes to have " spending " money in so no way of looking there. I tried adult works to see if that email was linked but doesn't look like it. I don't know of any others. We had a huge row last year when i found kik on his phone. Fuck sake im such a mug

WishICouldThinkOfAGoodName Fri 12-Jul-19 17:39:36

Kik as well? Oh dear OP, not good at all. You already know the answer don’t you?

EAIOU Fri 12-Jul-19 18:01:09

Yeah given your update, theres massive room for suspicion.

Sorry OP!

HollowTalk Fri 12-Jul-19 18:03:14

What were the issues at the start of your relationship?

Aussiebean Fri 12-Jul-19 18:47:45

Just noticed the ‘x’ at the end.

Does he use them often? Denotes a previous relationship

Aussiebean Fri 12-Jul-19 18:47:58

Or interaction of some kind

beenwhereyouare Fri 12-Jul-19 21:16:19


crankyassnoperope Fri 12-Jul-19 21:25:38

Ach, and Kik? I'm sorry OP.

girlanonymous Sun 14-Jul-19 01:06:23

you could email the person to confirm ?

AllyBamma Sun 14-Jul-19 13:51:22

Can you google the email address and see if it’s linked to a website?

justilou1 Sun 14-Jul-19 13:59:01

If it walks like a duck.... and it quacks like a duck....
good chance it’s a duck.
Sorry, OP 💐

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