I guess I'm looking for a massive wake up call, to help me just end this once and for all.
Been seeing each other 3 years in a LDR, complicated as I have young children who I want to protect. I know he isn't married etc, lives with his parents. These are some of the behaviours which have me thinking I should walk away but i have no idea what is stopping me.
Often cancels meeting at the last minute, when I have arranged childcare etc...
Drinks every day, heavier than most
Texts obsessively sometimes but then not at all on others
Lies about things he is doing and forgets the lies
Borrows money, but then excessively spends occasionally too
We do have a lot of shared interests and he can make me feel wonderful
So as not to drip feed he is late 40s I am early 40s.
He has no car, lives with his parents and would like one day to move to me (allegedly).
After yet another let down I know that he is awful and I should walk away but I dont... I should value myself more but I feel paralysed.
I guess I just want it pointing out as bluntly as possible how terrible this is.
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This really isn't right is it?
Wakemeupnowplease · 04/07/2019 12:11
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