Hello,
I'd like some advice.
I'm having lots of problems with my bf of four years. I want to settle down and he keeps telling me it'll happen in his own time which upsets me.
We argue and I don't feel listened to.... It's not just about the future.
Everytime I try to tell him I'm upset about the lack of commitment he turns it around and says he's on my side and makes me feel irrational or my opinion isn't valid.
Do you think he's innocently trying to comfort me or I'm worried it's manipulative?!
Or am I over reacting?
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Thoughtless or manipulative?
Greenfields1 · 12/06/2019 21:05
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