I have been living with my partner and her 15yr old daughter and 23 yr old son for 3 yrs now in her house (rented).
I own my own home outright that is 50 miles away and have tenants in it to provide income for us.
We dream of buying our own home together and we are in a position to do so when the right house crops up in the right area. This has now happened, so all I need to do is sell my own home and buy the new one outright which is very achievable for us. Problem I have is I really have a bad feeling about her son. He is financially abusive towards his mum, and also to his now ex-girlfriend. I really cannot face the prospect of him moving into a house I have bought and worked hard for as I fear it will come between my partner and myself. He is showing no signs of ever wanting to get his own place or even trying despite the fact he is quite comfortably off financially with 10-12k savings and no debt. My Parter is in love with this house and my concerns are going to cause trouble I know, but my gut instinct is to hold back. AIBU?
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sxround · 11/06/2019 11:23
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