Am I a slapper?

[Lottielettuce]

Hi everyone, I’m new here so please be gentle.
Last year after 5 years of widowhood I joined Match. I realise that at 71 I’m far older than most of you, anyway I met this 47 year old guy who prefers older women, there were sparks and fireworks and it was lust at first sight. We met several times but it eventually fizzled out because we were both meeting other people but we always kept messaging each other. Recently I met someone my age who is lovely attentive and every I could want so last night I suspended my old account. However, since doing that the younger guy has been WhatsApping me like crazy and wants to come and see me tonight. Question is, am I being a complete old slapper to want just another night of fantastic sex before the rocking chair beckons, or should I do the honourable thing and tell him to go away?

[madcatladyforever]

[Thingsdogetbetter]

Slapper no. Have you had the exclusive talk with new bloke? Will you feel like shite about new bloke? Do you think old bloke is only ramping up the attention because you've stopped being so available?

[CookieDeal]

Have you made any commitment to the guy your age? If not, then go for it with the younger guy!!

And don't call yourself a slapper! It's perfectly fine to be a woman who enjoys sex.

[hellsbellsmelons]

You do what ever you want.
And no, you are not a slapper to want some good sex.
Go with your gut!

[humblebumblebees]

You're not a slapper. Nobody is a slapper.

No one on here can tell you whether or not to have a last fling. Really, that's up to you.

However, if you really hope to develop a close and trusting relationship with the older man then it would be unhelpful on many levels to respond to the younger man's latest approach.

I would block him if it were me, and put that particular adventure behind me.

[Newadventure]

Bang away.

[TeachesOfPeaches]

Haven't heard the term slapper for years! Thanks nana

[sugarbum]

Its 2019.
Slappers don't exist.

[Honeybooboo123]

Do it, and then move on

[Ivy44]

@madcatladyforever

I keep seeing that emoji. What does it mean?

Is it a jammy dodger?

[Veterinari]

Reported

[supercali77]

Slapper? No way - women have sexual needs as much as men - all those words....reclaim em

[Lovemusic33]

Do it 😁

[Notabedofroses]

[GimmieTheCoffeeAndNooneDies]

Why not invite them both and have a threesome? Thrupple is the way to go!

[fecketyfeck21]

op 'jammy dodger' means no comment. lead your live as you wish, you don't need to ask us, but think about using condoms. vd can affect any age.

[Al2O3]

Do it, but for god sake make him wear a condom. You don't want to be sprogging at your age.

[Cruelstepmother]

I met someone my age who is lovely attentive and everything I could want … but he isn't, is he?

You want some great sex - and why not? You're 71, not dead.

But you also want a loving relationship.

Ask yourself if you really want to pick only one of the two, or keep looking.

[Ivy44]

I’m just really looking forward to great sex with a younger man, when I’m in my 70s.

I thought the menopause meant my sex life would be over at 50.

I’m 41, hadn’t been looking forward to it!

[Illberidingshotgun]

Nothing wrong with having sex, but I hope you are using condoms at all times.

[Purplecatshopaholic]

Go for it - I am just jealous!

[humblebumblebees]

@Ivy44 it is very encouraging, I agree.

[Marylou2]

So want this to be for real. Just go for it OP!