OK. I'm a bit embarrassed so I have changed my name.
Just about to get all romantic last night. Go in search of some contraception and find a lads mag with 100 of the pertest sexiest bums as the main heading in DH's drawer. Of course the women inside are all from bloody hollyoaks and have bodies to die for
He had been hiding said mag in his work bag since February and had been using it for 'tommy tank' material.
The thing is. If it were porn, as in the act of people having sex he was looking at. I wouldn't be bothered. It's the fact that it's pictures of beautiful and pretty much naked women that makes me feel like crap. It makes me wonder if he just finds my body completely hideous now I've popped out two children and am obviously nowhere near as sexy as a 20 year old glamorous woman who hasn't.
Our sex life isn't always top of the agenda with young kids and busy lives in tow. But we do have a regular one!
Am I totally off mark for letting the green eyed monster get the better of me? Do I need slapping round the face with a wet kipper? Am I just being a hormonal pre-menstrual mess?
I do genuinely feel quite hurt, but feel like a bit of a twat for saying it.
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DH - secretly using images of women to get off - I know it's been done before but bear with me
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Feelingabitfunny · 21/07/2007 08:59
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