Dp has accused me of stealing his Cannabis from his shed!

[notasheep]

And giving it to a girlfriend.
Whilst my head is full of how will i pay £120 gas bill,£130 electric bill,£140 council tax,£100 for 2 new car tyres.

Think our priorities are wrong.
And i havent been in his bloody shed and didnt know he was hiding stuff up in it.

Concerned he is getting paranoid and putting Cannabis as top priority.
Anyone else have a dh/dp with such a habit getting in the way?

[Tortington]

yeah - think your dp is a sad no hoper - am i right?

[Anniegetyourgun]

Custy, you always hit the nail right on the head.

If I found cannabis in my garden I'd set light to the bloody shed. (And be careful not to inhale!)

[notasheep]

It gets in the way of our whole bloody life-maybe very alike to living with an alcoholic

[oliveoil]

oh my dh is always breaking me crack pipe

I told him to feck off and get his own, cheeky arse mofo, and get his own gear while he was at it

MEN!

[notasheep]

Annie-that sounds like a fab idea

[KaySamuels]

I think you are right to be concerned.

[imaginaryfriend]

notasheep! hello!!

My dp's a bit of a dope-head too. Drives me up the wall.

[notasheep]

OMG_Hello IMF-the big issue continues and looks like it will for the rest of time while all the boring bills need to be paid!

[collision]

Why the hell do you put up with it?

Are you not concerned about the children and the fact it is illegal?

Kick em out!

[perpetuaphoenixfire]

xp got to stage where he needed it to get through day, then started on worse. i gave him choice of family or drugs, we didnt stand a chance! was absolutely right thing for me and kids

[notasheep]

collision and ppfire-thankyou for that,yes i am looking at kicking him out,i cant let the situation continue and i am the down trodden fool in the meantime.
I dont have any friends in my situation so experiences here will stop me making excuses all the time

[imaginaryfriend]

How much does he smoke notasheep? Does he have any days without at all?

[HelenLoveJoyOfSpringfield]

Speccy I think I dated him before you!

His name was Joe and he used to keep a History book on the bedside table beside his rollys and condoms

[perpetuaphoenixfire]

the paranoia is also very difficult to live with. sounds like he has already started down that road, if he is going to change he is going to have to do it quickly

[notasheep]

Ifriend-yes he does have days without it but its such a number One priority for him.
He isnt making ANY contribution to finances here.My brother made a point in calling me a mug

[oliveoil]

is this a serious thread?

I thought you were taking the piss!!!

sort him out, guy is a buffoon

[notasheep]

Yes its very serious Olive

[Anniegetyourgun]

Your brother speaks truth. Get rid.

[collision]

LOL...I thought your reply was strange Olive!!!

Sorry to sound harsh Sheepy but he sounds like an idiot and you could probably do much better on your own.

What is your work situation?

[NKF]

Do you like being in a relationship where this sort of conversation takes place?

[imaginaryfriend]

People who smoke dope are convinced that it makes them more interesting ...

[lou33]

lol @ cheeky arse mofo


if he is getting paranoid he is using way too much

[notasheep]

collision- i need you all to be very harsh with me please.

The thing is i know i can kick him out,its my house which i own( and only in my name)
Work part time and have coped all this time.

Feel i really need a push to take a big deep jump into a new future