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Dp has accused me of stealing his Cannabis from his shed!

(90 Posts)
notasheep Tue 03-Jul-07 21:06:46

And giving it to a girlfriend.
Whilst my head is full of how will i pay £120 gas bill,£130 electric bill,£140 council tax,£100 for 2 new car tyres.

Think our priorities are wrong.
And i havent been in his bloody shed and didnt know he was hiding stuff up in it.

Concerned he is getting paranoid and putting Cannabis as top priority.
Anyone else have a dh/dp with such a habit getting in the way?

Tortington Tue 03-Jul-07 21:08:12

yeah - think your dp is a sad no hoper - am i right?

Anniegetyourgun Tue 03-Jul-07 21:11:13

Custy, you always hit the nail right on the head.

If I found cannabis in my garden I'd set light to the bloody shed. (And be careful not to inhale!)

notasheep Tue 03-Jul-07 21:11:18

It gets in the way of our whole bloody life-maybe very alike to living with an alcoholic

oliveoil Tue 03-Jul-07 21:11:34

oh my dh is always breaking me crack pipe <<<rolls eyes>>>

I told him to feck off and get his own, cheeky arse mofo, and get his own gear while he was at it


notasheep Tue 03-Jul-07 21:11:58

Annie-that sounds like a fab idea

KaySamuels Tue 03-Jul-07 21:13:19

I think you are right to be concerned.

imaginaryfriend Tue 03-Jul-07 21:13:35

notasheep! hello!!

My dp's a bit of a dope-head too. Drives me up the wall.

notasheep Tue 03-Jul-07 21:14:55

OMG_Hello IMF-the big issue continues and looks like it will for the rest of time while all the boring bills need to be paid!

collision Tue 03-Jul-07 21:15:21

Why the hell do you put up with it?

Are you not concerned about the children and the fact it is illegal?

Kick em out!

perpetuaphoenixfire Tue 03-Jul-07 21:15:30

xp got to stage where he needed it to get through day, then started on worse. i gave him choice of family or drugs, we didnt stand a chance! was absolutely right thing for me and kids

Speccy Tue 03-Jul-07 21:18:10

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

notasheep Tue 03-Jul-07 21:20:36

collision and ppfire-thankyou for that,yes i am looking at kicking him out,i cant let the situation continue and i am the down trodden fool in the meantime.
I dont have any friends in my situation so experiences here will stop me making excuses all the time

imaginaryfriend Tue 03-Jul-07 21:23:05

How much does he smoke notasheep? Does he have any days without at all?

HelenLoveJoyOfSpringfield Tue 03-Jul-07 21:23:14

Speccy I think I dated him before you!

His name was Joe and he used to keep a History book on the bedside table beside his rollys and condoms

perpetuaphoenixfire Tue 03-Jul-07 21:23:51

the paranoia is also very difficult to live with. sounds like he has already started down that road, if he is going to change he is going to have to do it quickly

notasheep Tue 03-Jul-07 21:25:23

Ifriend-yes he does have days without it but its such a number One priority for him.
He isnt making ANY contribution to finances here.My brother made a point in calling me a mug

oliveoil Tue 03-Jul-07 21:26:20

is this a serious thread?

I thought you were taking the piss!!!

sort him out, guy is a buffoon

notasheep Tue 03-Jul-07 21:27:12

Yes its very serious Olive

Anniegetyourgun Tue 03-Jul-07 21:27:17

Your brother speaks truth. Get rid.

collision Tue 03-Jul-07 21:28:52

LOL...I thought your reply was strange Olive!!!

Sorry to sound harsh Sheepy but he sounds like an idiot and you could probably do much better on your own.

What is your work situation?

Speccy Tue 03-Jul-07 21:29:13

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

NKF Tue 03-Jul-07 21:30:21

Do you like being in a relationship where this sort of conversation takes place?

imaginaryfriend Tue 03-Jul-07 21:30:55

People who smoke dope are convinced that it makes them more interesting ...

lou33 Tue 03-Jul-07 21:31:20

lol @ cheeky arse mofo

if he is getting paranoid he is using way too much

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