So I don’t really mention tonmy fiance what I have been up to during the day with our 13 week old coz all I seem to get is it either thrown back in my face or it’s so much easier just having coffee with friends, I’m at work, I know I’d rather be sitting at home, having a baby is a piece of piss etc etc.
He’s a sales Manager and I’m sure it can be stressful having targets etc but he makes out it’s so easy having a baby. Our DD is quite an easy baby, good, happy etc but I’ve done both work and a baby and I know that I got breaks etc at work, being a Mum is tiring, although rewarding, but it’s 24/7. Tonight he’s been going on and on at me why I was ‘moody’ yesterday morning (coz I was up 3 times in the night then his alarm goes off and he snoozes it 4 times then crunches his cereal in my ear with the lamp on) yet why I was all happy this morning when my 6 year old son (not his child) comes in talking to me (maybe coz I had a slightly better night sleep last night and coz my son is a child).
Does anyone else have this with their partner? He turns it into an argument, and I don’t get why. I’m tired, he thinks he does loads (today in the 2 hour nap my DD had I ironed all the clothes and put them away, hoovered, cleaned kitchen and bathrooms, this was after an hours dog walk this morning), he then says I can’t be that tired, well I am actually but these things need to be done and id soon get it in the neck if it wasn’t so I have no choice really.
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Do all men think having a baby is easy
247mummsy · 10/01/2019 21:15
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