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why do folk havign affairs stil text

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FluffyMummy123 Tue 26-Jun-07 16:01:45

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BigGitDad Tue 26-Jun-07 16:02:36

cos it's easier than talking in front of your wife!

beansprout Tue 26-Jun-07 16:02:42

Ah yes, but these people are not the clever and reliable sort though, are they?

FluffyMummy123 Tue 26-Jun-07 16:03:29

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snowwonder Tue 26-Jun-07 16:04:27

yeah just buy a second pay as you go phone and keep it secret, no contract no bills

bundle Tue 26-Jun-07 16:04:32

sil got found out this way. her divorce lawyer said she hears about least a couple of clients every week who've been caught out like this.

EffiePerine Tue 26-Jun-07 16:04:46

ah not only tossers but thick

FluffyMummy123 Tue 26-Jun-07 16:04:57

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FluffyMummy123 Tue 26-Jun-07 16:05:36

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NuttyMuffins Tue 26-Jun-07 16:05:43

My dad is having a fling with a married woman (well sort of fling) and they have a thing set up now where they can ring each others mobile for an hour and it only cost pence. DIfferent ringtones too so they know it is them calling.

Bloody stupid if you ask me.

FluffyMummy123 Tue 26-Jun-07 16:06:30

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nailpolish Tue 26-Jun-07 16:06:43

keep it on silent

and dont keep it under the real name of person

FluffyMummy123 Tue 26-Jun-07 16:07:18

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TootyFrooty Tue 26-Jun-07 16:07:38

I'm very suspicious of people who keep their mobile phones attached to themselves at all times and never let them out of their sight. I'm convinced people like that are having affairs.

FluffyMummy123 Tue 26-Jun-07 16:08:27

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nailpolish Tue 26-Jun-07 16:09:52

whos trevor tracey

TootyFrooty Tue 26-Jun-07 16:10:04

And they have to leave the room when their phone rings.

FluffyMummy123 Tue 26-Jun-07 16:10:46

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nailpolish Tue 26-Jun-07 16:11:20

oh yes!
i remember now

popsycal Tue 26-Jun-07 16:12:45

oooooh i have two phones
dont have a fancy man though

mistressmiggins Tue 26-Jun-07 19:51:03

my H had his mistress set up on MSN - she was blocked so couldnt contact him but I guess he used to chat away while I was downstairs cooking tea

numerous times I came in & he quickly closed a window on the computer looking sheepish but of course there was no history out of the ordinary

they must have been having a good laugh at me while I was out the room

I never found txts from her until the weekend when he told her he was making a decision about his marriage - surprisingly I found a txt on his phone the following morning.....stupid bloke

HuwEdwards Tue 26-Jun-07 19:55:45

someone I knew had a photo on his phone of his 'squeeze' in bed. His DW took a photo with using the phone, at a big family 'do' and then tried to look at said photo and found the other woman.

tribpot Tue 26-Jun-07 19:58:46

The wife of a friend of mine got caught out like this. Had already admitted the affair and promised no further contact. They are at the wedding of one of her cousins, she's upstairs getting changed. Her phone goes. Someone says to her dh "oh, [beatch] has received a text" and passes it to him. It's the Other Man. I mean for heaven's sake, at the very least turn Rob into Rachel!

hurtwife Wed 27-Jun-07 07:35:07

Its because they want to get found out really. They dont have the balls to be honest face to face and probably want to be 'kicked' out so they can be the injured party.

mylittlestar Wed 27-Jun-07 07:35:25

I found out about H's affair by finding some text messages.

He was then letting me check his phone to 'prove' it was over! Stupid arse forgot to delete a text one day so I then found out he was seeing her again but keeping the texting during 'working hours'!!

Not much more I can add!

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