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Why's my thread been delete!

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Spoilingthem · 15/12/2018 01:25

Posted before about my husband and finding messages, and it's been deleted! Why?!

OP posts:
jessstan2 · 15/12/2018 01:27

I didn't see it Spoiling them but it may not have been because of you but because of some of the replies.

cigarettesandcoffee · 15/12/2018 01:40

I saw your thread and came back on to search for it to see how you were doing and can't find it!

Someone mentioned on the thread about deleting the screenshots you posted but I can't see why it would cause the thread to be deleted 🤷🏻‍♀️

Chat here if you are needing support OP

Danteinferno · 15/12/2018 01:42

I read your thread and the deletion message said it was being hidden until MNHQ can have a look at it

ClaireElizabethBeauchampFraser · 15/12/2018 02:02

I wondered that, I would message an admin and ask for clarification. I hope that you are ok OP. Also hoping I didn’t break the thread, as it was fine when I replied earlier.

halfwitpicker · 15/12/2018 02:13

Maybe ask HQ? I read it earlier - the texts highlighted in blue etc?

Skatersbeskating · 15/12/2018 02:18

It says they are looking at it. I hope you are o.k. They might delete the messages only?

Mummyoflittledragon · 15/12/2018 02:24

One of the screenshots had the woman’s name on it apparently. I didn’t notice or go back to check. It hasn’t been deleted atm. Rather hidden until tomorrow. I expect mnhq will be in contact with you tomorrow.

Spoilingthem · 15/12/2018 03:47

It was only her first name, so it was hardly identifying. Thank you for replying

OP posts:
Kneesbend · 15/12/2018 07:26

One did have her first name, I can only think that was the reason. They could have just removed that particular screenshot though?

RyderWhiteSwan · 15/12/2018 07:34

Hi OP, I noticed your thread had gone and was rather worried why.

Kneesbend · 15/12/2018 07:41

Your posts were beautiful, Ryder x

chickhonhoneybabe · 15/12/2018 07:45

I think if someone reports a post it automatically gets hidden until HQ look at it.

I reported an odd post last night where a guy was looking to cheat on his wife and wanted to hook up with someone... and noticed that the post was hidden once reported.

I hope that you’re ok op, I saw your post has your DH come home?

MsJolly · 15/12/2018 07:48
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RyderWhiteSwan · 15/12/2018 08:02

Your posts were beautiful, Ryder Blush

I have read many, many insightful, well written, massively intelligent and supporting posts on threads in Relationships. Most of us here have been through relationship traumas of one kind or another, so can respond from our own experiences. This is why I stay.

UnicornSlaughters · 15/12/2018 08:49

Hope you're okay OP

SchnitzelVonKrumm · 15/12/2018 08:50

Did he come home and explain himself?

Pinkyyy · 15/12/2018 08:55

I was worried when I couldn't find it! Have you seen him yet OP?

SummerGems · 15/12/2018 09:10

Have reported this thread and asked mn hq to clarify.

Spoilingthem · 15/12/2018 09:12

He slept downstairs, and as I came down with the baby in the morning, he's gone up so I haven't seen him

I need to go upstairs to get dressed and ready to take the girls out to a birthday party, but I really don't want to face him. I feel so sick, and I have hardly had any sleep Sad

Thank you so much for the support, I don't feel able to tell anyone in real life yet, so being able to chat on here is invaluable. Despite my original thread being deleted Angry

OP posts:
RyderWhiteSwan · 15/12/2018 09:20

So he's hiding instead of facing you?

Pinkyyy · 15/12/2018 09:24

OP having things to do today is a blessing in disguise, focus on taking your girls to their party and forget about him for the time being. He will have to really think about what he's going to do/say, give yourself time to think about what he says and whether or not you believe it and want to continue in the relationship

Sighhhhh85 · 15/12/2018 09:24

Honey leave him

I was in the exact same position as u last year messages no explanation from
Ex he was horrible. A year on I am happier than ever haven’t looked back it is so scary but so worth it x

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stopitandtidyupp · 15/12/2018 10:07

Honey leave him

I was in the exact same position as u last year messages no explanation from
Ex he was horrible. A year on I am happier than ever haven’t looked back it is so scary but so worth it x

This! This was me 5 years ago. I am so much happier now. I have less money but it's not worth feeling bad and lacking trust.

bumbother · 15/12/2018 10:16

One of the messages showed her first name, but also her second initial was evident too. Maybe that's why.

whynot93 · 15/12/2018 10:21

Wondered what happened to that post, hope you are ok this morning! Keep yourself busy with the children he can't hide all weekend.

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