Just canvassing opinions really.
My DP will often call me a c* - this is usually how disagreements start in our house.
I know it's just a word and given how often he uses it it probably shouldn't upset me but for some reason it really does lately.
I should add that I swear often although I don't use that word and don't really direct that kind of language at him in arguments. I grew up in a home where that kind of language was normal so I'm surprised that it's suddenly bothering me.
Obviously I have asked him to to use that language towards me, especially in front of the children but it falls on deaf ears.
I suppose I just want to see if I need a bit of a thicker skin or if this is really something that people won't tolerate?
Sirry for rambling, if you got this far, thank you for reading!
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I know it's just a word. ....but it upsets me
Crackers1428 · 11/12/2018 12:35
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