I'm nearly divorced which is a good thing. But now I'm finding myself desperately painfully lonely in the evenings when my dc go to bed. I do everything that is usually recommended - I've made a list of books and films I'm working my way through, I exercise and am in the best shape of my life, I call friends and sometimes they come over in the evenings, I bake, play piano, read endless blogs and articles online, learn things from Youtube, reorganise my house, even started a flipping community project which is time consuming, and got a cat, all in the hope that I won't feel that desperate sad emptiness at the end of the day. I've tried online dating and have been on some lovely dates but in the end it requires me having regular child free time in order to develop a relationship, which I don't currently have, and even if I did I don't feel mentally or emotionally ready for a relationship. But I'm so bloody lonely!! I just want to know someone has got my back at all times and is on the end of the line if I need them. Is that too much to ask? What do others do in this situation?
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