I’ve been with DP a year. I’m also divorced. He has three DC, I’ve one. This is mental. Totally irrational and yet it’s annihilating me
He doesn’t make me jealous. He speaks about her in a neutral way, and very rarely. They have an amicable relationship
This is MY problem
I have no right to be jealous 🙁
They were together twenty years. She cheated and left. She’s ten years older than me. I’m in my twenties - and clearly need to grow the fuck up
I’m his first relationship since they broke up five years ago. She’s very happy with her partner of such years
I’m so jealous she carried his children when I never will. That he proposed to her. That they had everything
He has experienced everything with her first. He would have forgiven her for cheating
Their marriage and split up is none of my business. I’ve had to block her on FB to stop looking. She’s really pretty. I don’t want to go to restaurants they visited, holiday destinations they went to
I think of them planning their future, planning and conceiving their children. How happy he must have been. How we’ll never have that
He’s oblivious to this. I’m so fucking insecure
He adores me. I’ve no doubts of his love. Please tell me this gets easier and someday I’ll stop considering her as superwoman
I know I sound pathetic
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So jealous of his ex wife
LennyTheHamster · 17/09/2018 20:47
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