I posted in the sex topic last night but didn’t get any replies and I really need some independent perspectives on my situation.
My boyfriend and I were in bed last night and he had been expecting to have some back door action. I wasn’t up for that and he kept joking I had promised him it and that I couldn’t renege on my promise.
Anyway, we were having normal sex with me on top. I asked him if it was working for him and he replied that it was ‘ok’.
Now I’m not expecting him to see stars but if someone is taking the time to make herself vulnerable to you I think it’s pretty shitty to say that what is happening is ‘ok’. If you want to improve things then we can talk about that outside the bedroom or you can make some of your own suggestions to make it better for you. I just felt so deflated I climbed off.
He doesn’t understand why I’m upset and says it must be because it’s my ‘time of th month’.
Was he being a dick or do I need to get a grip?
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What he said in bed
Watda · 18/08/2018 08:28
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