A friend of mine has declared some hefty feelings for me which aren't reciprocated. He's going through a very hard time at the moment.
I've said I'm unable to remain in contact with him given his feelings. He continues to message me - not frequently and not anything beyond what a friend would send.
No contact feels so cold - ignoring his messages feels so harsh even if it is for the best. This is the right thing to do, isn't it? I have some friends who say that I should block him, others who say respond occassionally to reiterate my reasons. I care about him and I'm finding it really hard to know what to do.
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Enforcing no contact - cruel to be kind
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Doodal · 11/08/2018 22:36
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