I am trying to get over the breakdown of a long marriage. He has a new woman who may have been OW its unclear. I have met her years back & was gobsmacked to find out.
I feel like it is a stage I am going through. I feel I need to know what their relationship is like - he says they get on better. I know she is younger and slimmer than me with no responsibilities. Are they out having fun? Partying more? Laughing? Is he on a charm offensive? Etc etc
I feel like I want these details and my brain cannot let go of speculating.
I think it is because deep down I want to know what she has that I don’t, what did I lack. I know it is only torturing myself but I feel it is a stage I need to go through. Can anyone relate to this or give me some advice?
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Stripeyzigzag · 11/08/2018 16:43
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