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There is a massive back story - fault on both our parts of communicating.
DH or exDH I guess now, was diagnosed with depression. He is back on track and claims to be better but still on meds to get to this state. He has difficult controlling his actions when angry and during a row on Sunday he threw a ball meant for me and hit our 1 year old on the back of the head. I had said I was leaving (which is a trigger for him) by this point. I lifted my daughter and left. Spent the night elsewhere. I am 24 weeks pregnant. He left for elsewhere the next day.
Sorry this is long but wanted to give a bit of history and I'm trying not to make him all bad DH as I have bad points as well. Anyway onto the point.
Wed I received a letter about Dd - summary of recent hospital appointment he refused to go to even though he was on annual leave that day. I tried to wats app it and he had me blocked. So I text and he told me to email it. I did, he said he couldn't read it and to write him a summary of letter. I refused as I had tried to send it two ways already and if he hadn't blocked me on WhatsApp he would have had a copy of letter. He moaned for a while about how I am being difficult.
He has since unblocked me and I have sent it. He has been going on about how I am being difficult since.
Tonight our dd has a tummy bug and is very ill, throwing up every 5-10 min. I sent him 3 pics of her and told him she was very ill. I thought it might be tummy bug but that she really wasn't very well. 2 hours later still no response. (I shouldn't have but I did) I text him asking where his concern was tonight when she was actually ill when he was so concerned about a letter. His response was he knows she is ok with me and started into how I was difficult with letter and knew he couldn't read email - how I would know that I've no idea! He has now blocked me again!
I have blew this up because I'm so fuming about everything else haven't I? Or is he actually being rubbish?
I don't want to split up my family but I'm gonna have to aren't I? Do I get a solicitor? GP suggested women's aid. He wants to see her tomorrow, so I let him. I sent a message saying not to come to the house or I will call the police (told you I'm as bad shit as he is - I just get soo cross with him)
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