Following reading another thread on here ive been reading Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft and realised im currently engaged to Mr Sensitive...
I guess ive always had my doubts but im so in love with him its so hard to get my head around. He can be so loving, romantic, supportive and he is absolutely amazing with my DD and she adores him. However, when things are not how he wants them in the relationship he becomes angry and verbally abusive. He's had an awful past (confirmed by his mother who is lovely) abused by his father and watched his mother be abused and i guess i wanted to be the one to "save" him... but i can't!!
We are currently not talking as i had a different opinion to him on a topic we were talking about. Luckily we do not live together so i can just get on with things. I dread receiving a phone message thinking it will be him and what vile things he's going to say... How can i take the control and end it myself? The fall out is going to be horrendous.. but im worth more then this...
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notthisagain83 · 17/07/2018 16:42
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