I just got off the phone with a good friend of mine and I’m feeling a bit hurt..
I was having a moan (not a major rant) about my partner because he’s been a bit of a pain recently..! Nothing that can’t be sorted out with a chat etc, I’m not talking big issues here..
So I was telling her that I’m going back to work soon and partner will be looking after our son. Partner is a little apprehensive about it as I’ve always been around but we’ve agreed I need to go back to work and to avoid childcare costs that’s the way it’s going to be. So I’m telling her about my partner being a bit nervous and she suddenly just snaps “he’s never going to change, i definitely wouldn’t have another baby with him”. ...?
(We didn’t plan our first child, but we decided after he was born that we wanted another one so our son could have a sibling to play/grow up with.) her comment really took me by surprise?! I hadn’t mentioned us having another baby, just that my partner was nervous about me going back to work..! I just thought it was a bit weird to come out with a comment like that?
I’ve been having issues with “friends” at the moment as in, they seam to have stopped talking to me for apparently no reason- I have sat and thought about why, if I could have done something wrong, but I havent.! I know I’ve done nothing wrong. So I thought perhaps I was a bit paranoid over that to why I was a bit hurt by above friends comment.?
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Overreacting? Or would you be hurt..?
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Holly6486 · 24/06/2018 20:54
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