Perspective please
Have had a bit of a rocky road with my OH
He has been under super stress recently with work stresses possible redundancys etc and hasn't been himself
He's been snappy selfish and mean at times which made me question if it was me and his efforts with me went out of the window
Things came to a head which we have spoken about and cleared but he then dropped the bomb that he needs some space to clear his head because his behaviour isn't who he is and cannot treat me the way he has been he was geniunely upset by his behaviour
I asked are we on a break he said no
Are we still together he said yes
And that he loves me and my DC very much
He has also made sure he has booked the time off work to ensure he attends a function with me in August as planned
He has been in complete contact since the talk
Texting calling as normal i just haven't seen him or made any plans to this week
I'm just a little confused as to what to do next regarding this space I don't want to push him
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He needs space
confusedspace · 21/06/2018 09:48
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