Been married 20 years. 4 children. I believe that DH is financially abusive and controlling and I need things to change. I have booked an appointment with a solicitor for next week and I just wondered what ducks I need to get in a row? Do you think things would change if I gave him an ultimatum - either stop behaving like this or I will file for divorce? I don't really want to LTB but I can't stand living with panic attacks because I can't pay the bills. Thank you.
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