Posting for a friend, bit of back story been together since 'Tina' was 16 now been together for nearly 9 years two children home together etc.
Tina isn't allowed to work as she must stay at home and it's out of the question, Tina isn't allowed a girls night out without Joey.
Tina isn't allowed to have male friends, talk to males, have them on Facebook/twitter etc.
She must say where she's going what' she's been doing who she's been with. She has the children every day plus doing a nursery run twice a day so doesn't have any time for herself to do anything regarding "meeting men".
For example today a elder man fell backwards and smashed the whole back of his head open blood was pooling out around said crushed head so Tina phoned an ambulance found a pulse and got passers by to help. Left to continue nursery run when ambulance came and was all ok hopefully. When she got home joey questioned what the man looked like, why did she have to infterfear and sit with him?. How old was he where does he live? why does she have blood on her?. She wanted to find the patient and send flowers to the hospital he then went crazy accusing her of intrfearing again and wanting to be in this mans life and just to back of from the man and leave him alone and it's not normal for her to want to see if he's ok.
In rows he's spat at her face numerous times,
He throws water or drinks over her he slowly tips ice water over her knowing she won't fight back. He will punch her thighs as she wears trousers everyday. (He doesn't like her wearing dr sees or skirts). He goes through her phone if unlocked and constantly tells her she is mental or has mental health problems. Bullies her about weight she has gained.
Writing this now it does seem so obvious but I think she just wants someone else's input don't get me wrong she has fought back before but he will always over power her. And it's never around the children..
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imnotadragon · 19/06/2018 19:35
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