I've written about my dm on here before and today I feel like just spitting it out again for the sake of my own relief. My dm walked out and abandoned me to my violent, neglectful, sexually abusive father from when I was a small defenceless child. I was forced to take over her role so she didn't have to. She completely let me down as a child. I had no-where to turn to. I was beaten, neglected, starved, terrorised, sexually assaulted...daily. There was no escape. And do you know what her job was? Manager of the childrens team in social services!!! It just beggars belief doesn't it? And she honestly believed she was such a fucking shiny paragon of virtue. Utterly. Fucking. Deluded.
I'm going to write that again, for my own satisfaction.
My mother was head of the children's team in social services and she turned a blind eye to her own dd's rape and neglect.
Social services clearly don't check their staff out very well.
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Bflkgjropign · 19/06/2018 07:24
Oh love. There's no words I can think of to soothe you.
She did let you down, it is a massive, unfunny joke that her job was safeguarding children.And your anger is understandable and justified.
Where are they both now? Do you ever contemplate pressing charges now?
I'm so so sorry, pair of fucking monsters 
So sorry OP how terrible that your mother didn’t protect you, she should be ashamed of herself.
Please get some help for you and one of the steps for your recovery please report them both, many abusers have an enabler sadly.
Very shocking to hear that your mother worked in children’s Social care, report, report, report. Don’t let them get away with their crimes.
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