Married 10 years. Mostly ups but the downs are rock bottom. I have name changed several times asking advice on here, but knowing exactly what I should do(leave) then not take the advice or go back within a day. So recently D H had a binge, drinking all day at home then we going to pub. He came home covered in his own piss in the early hour waking up me and DD. Pissed the couch, and woke up and started looking for more drink. I lost it and decided it was over. At first he was horrible, implying that I would be hopeless homeless and carless on my own and refusing to change his exact words were "I ain't changing for no cunt". Then he realised what a prick he was being and promised to give up drinking so much and do more together as a family. When he is good he is great a great dad, affectionate supportive etc. He works very hard (which was always his excuse for drinking so much). So far he has been true to his word BUT I have been here before and realise it may not last. I love him very much and hope with all my heart we can make it work. So my question is what can I do to make sure if it happens again me and DC are in the best position we can be? I have put in an application for housing for me and DC detailing our situation. Any advice on what else I should do?
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Mammiemaw · 18/06/2018 13:21
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