One of my friends, 4 months before her wedding in Spain has turned on me and another good friend. We have been left emotional wrecks.
We’ve been good friends to her for 15 years and have scrapped her off the floor when her fiancé and her have argued (they break up every 6 months, she wanted a pre-nup and they only got engaged after she wouldn't let him in the house).
My friend and I are both laidback and kind. We’ve avoided any confrontation. The bride has continued to send manipulative aggressive, abusive messages one after the other (even though she told me not to contact her again which I respected) and to my work address! – the messages she sends are so angry but contain no facts or actual issues with my friend or I. My friend naively sent her a nice message saying she respected her and hoped she was ok - the response was more abuse.
My questions are:
- Has anyone experienced this from a ‘friend’ getting married?
- Do you think it's because she is unhappy?
- Have you ever decided to not attend a wedding due to this?
- What did you do? if anything!
Thanks :)