OLD. Not met in person yet.
When he calls or begins texting in a day - we talk for hours. Literally hours. I'm really enjoying it
BUT this is how my relationship with abusive ex began too.
Today he hasn't actually called/texted yet but it was early hours of the morning when we stopped and he's working so I'm doing that thing where you try to not message them but wondering why he hasn't yet. Allowing it too much headspace
Is this just rediculously unhealthy and something to shut down or do relationships sometimes actually blossom that begin like this?
I think perhaps it's silly having not met in person yet as I'm feeling an emotional attachment that may not exist
Abusive ex talked for hours and it was part of grooming me into becoming codependent on him I think, although I thought it was love at the time
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The beginning- too intense?
tryingtodateagain · 12/06/2018 17:03
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