Hi. This is a bit embarrassing and I'm probably going to regret this.
My DH and I have been ttc for a few years now since the birth of our DC. It's been unsuccessful this far and there's been talk of menopause and low morphology and the like bandied about. Long story short we are just keeping on trying every month and hoping for the best.
Needless to say sex is sometimes not that or exciting like when we were new and young (and not worried about waking a child up downstairs!). However last night it HURT like was the most painful ever. I squealed a bit I think and moved. However the desire for a baby is so strong right now that I kept going and eventually it was ok and things were in the right place.
Anyway it's so painful today and I was actually bleeding this morning still when I went for a wee. Should I say anything? Is there a way to stop it happening again?
It's never happened before and I know he would be mortified to know what has happened. I worry if I tell him he'll lose all confidence (he's not at all confident in the bedroom no matter how much I try to build him up). It wasn't his fault but I worry we are doing something wrong.
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nearlysummer2018 · 27/05/2018 23:54
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